As Salaam Alaikum Umm Adam,

I am so frustrated. I have been married for several years. My husband and I have 6 children. Even though motherhood makes me happy, I am so miserable with him. If it weren’t for us having a family together, I honestly don’t think my husband and I would have anything in common. We are both committed to the marriage, there is no physical abuse. We are both good people, but not a good match. My major concern is that I hate having sex with him. I avoid it as much as possible. I stay married to him for practicle reasons, and wish the relationship was strictly platonic.

The reason that I’m writing you  is because I was hoping I could get some feedback from your readers about my situation. They always give the best comments.