I can not imagine what a Muslim message board like this would be like.

The webhost do offer a pretty good analogy for why women should not refuse their husbands.


A little analogy: When you skip a meal or two, you get very hungry. Pretty soon you stop caring much about what or where you eat, just as long as you can get something to eat!

As Muslims, we already know, it is not permissible for a woman to refuse intimacy if her husband request it , rather she is disobeying  Allah and His Messenger (by refusing). In al-Saheeh it says: “If a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses, the One Who is in heaven will be angry with her until morning comes.”  Lori’s analogy sure helps put this in perspective!

I don’t anticipate any comments on this post, but just incase, I remind everyone to fear Allah and have good adab.