I often wonder why sisters leave such shameful post as this on their blogs to assault reader’s eyes? muslim women should do housework and backbreaking work during the day and still be able to sexually PERFORM FOR their husbands at the end of it all and it is beyond them to even feel overwhelmed by it and think they deserve a few hours to themselves once in a while to keep sane.

Mr. whoever you are, do yourself a favour, don’t bother getting married to a muslim woman. Just get yourself a slave and make her break her back serving you and your family all day without lifting a finger to help, and demand she serves you her body all night, and forbid her to ever complain.

It seems to me in the first blog of um Adam there is the real reason for the disunity. It comes from women who struggle to cope with their basic job description and then turn on their husbands expecting them to

empathise and understand the hard nature of their role

gimme a break!!

try taking a trip to any other Muslim african or Arab country and see how the women their work for their families. yet they do household and back breaking work and yet still sexually perform for their husbands at the end of it all.

they find chances throughout the day to laugh and relax wth their neighbours and at the end of it all, good or bad they realise that they are blessed to have a husband.

If western and khaleegyia sisters were to experiance more hardships they might find less to moan about and more reasons to be happy.

Classic also that um Adam should know whatys going on in intimate details in others houses. this lack of shame in teh sisters running and teling each other their problems is as many Salaf of this ummah have pointed out is one of the easiest ways for a family to continue to experiance marital discord.

sisters in stead of reaching for the phone or typing the email why not ask yourself

shouldn’t I phone someone who is versed in sharee’ah and speaks my language to get some advice.
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None the less,why don’t we think about jinn possesion, magic & the evil eye? That is a reality,yet we act like it can’t happen. The Prophet,sal Allahu alayhi wa salam,was afflicted with magic. The children of the sahabi Jafar,radi Allahu anhum were often afflicted with ayn. So why do we feel safe, as if its stuff you see in horror flicks? So many evil magicians that dress like us, talk like us,and “pray” next to us, are there only to destroy our families. If a brother or sister is doing things out of character,making horrible decisions,fatigued,and other stranger new habits, it just may be magic,ayn, possesion,or even all three. May Allah save us from this evil,ameen.

count me also as someone who wants the same spouse in jannah, insha’Allah. neither of us are perfect, we have our life issues etc but alhamdulillah i don’t think i could have had a better spouse even if i could have custom-ordered one!

I’m gob smacked, the story bout the husband who spits on his wifes face…